Episode 90

Training is a Waste of Time and Money

Dennis Collins, Leah Bumphrey, and Paul Boomer tackle the pervasive disappointment founders feel after spending thousands on sales training that yields no evidence of success. The hosts deconstruct why training often fails and how owners can move from "massive disappointment" to a measurable return on investment.

The featured confession comes from an owner who has hired reputable trainers but never saw the "massive transformation" promised.

In this episode:

[02:32] The Core Confession: "Training Is a Waste of Time and Money" — an owner who has hired reputable trainers but never saw the transformation promised

[04:31] Enthusiasm Spikes, Habits Remain — why teams feel a temporary boost in excitement, only for old habits to return because the training was never "installed" into the daily workflow

[05:00] Why Training Fails: Delivery vs. Integration — Paul identifies a fundamental flaw in the training industry: most programs are designed for delivery (the show) rather than integration (the change in behavior)

[11:18] The Missing Ingredient — Dennis argues owners often fail to ask trainers how they will actually integrate the material into the specific business, comparing it to buying a software disk but never installing it on the computer

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Transcript
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(Upbeat Music)

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It does.

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What are you putting on your collar?

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You a priest?

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Well, we're gonna be hearing confessions.

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No, no, women can't be priests.

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But if we're hearing confessions, there.

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Look at that.

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All right, now I feel-- Bless

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me sister for I have sinned.

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Hey, hey, there we go.

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Remind me, I have a story to tell you

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about this, gents, but it's not today.

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Oh, will you tell it on

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a podcast or privately?

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Oh, absolutely, absolutely.

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You can't actually make a point without

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risking offending people.

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Father Leah.

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All right.

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Archbishop Leah.

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Oh, I like that.

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I like that.

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Archbishop, Pope Leah.

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I'm coming up, Grand Puba.

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I like Grand Puba.

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Grand Puba.

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Grand Puba, okay.

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Hi guys, it's Leah, the beautiful one on

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the screen, Paul, the smart one on the

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screen, and me, I just hang out, Dennis.

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I'm just here for the--

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Dennis is the wrangler.

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Yes.

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He's the wrangler.

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He's the really smart

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one who just doesn't--

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I've been called worse than that, so.

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(Laughs)

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But thank you, anyway.

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Here we are.

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We're doing confessions.

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Yes, confe-- Leah was pretending to be a

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priest there because we're gonna hear,

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we're gonna hear confessions from small

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business owners, business founders.

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These are things they don't tell anybody,

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not their spouse,

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certainly not their team.

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These are the quiet moments when they

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say, "I am a smart, capable guy or gal,

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"but I haven't figured this

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out yet, "and I don't know why."

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So that's why you're here.

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That's what we try to do.

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We've had a combined hundred plus years

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of experience working

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with small business owners.

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Yes, 97% of that, 97 of those

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were mine, but no, not really.

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But

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we wanna share real confessions, real

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stories about real people so that you get

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the impression you're not alone.

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Okay, it isn't just you.

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Don't think it's just you that has these

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feelings, these confessions.

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So let's do

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confession, the next confession.

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Are you guys ready for this confession?

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We're here.

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Okay, I need you.

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Hit me.

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I need your support on this one.

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This one hits close to home, okay?

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Okay, small business owner, confession.

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I have spent untold thousands

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of dollars on sales training.

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I see no evidence that it's worked.

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You know, I think I've hired some pretty

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good sales trainers.

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I mean, the material looks good to me.

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I'm not a sales guy,

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but it looked good to me.

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But you know what?

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I never see the massive

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transformation that was promised.

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I don't know if that's my fault or their

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fault, but it doesn't happen.

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So now I question the

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value of any training.

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I'm very gun shy and I

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know I get a lot of advice.

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Well, you know, you can't be perfect and

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do everything yourself.

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You gotta hire trainers occasionally.

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Ah, too bad.

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I am not in that space right now.

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I don't see an ROI. I

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don't think training works.

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I can't see spending

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another dollar on it.

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I'm probably, I admit, I could be seeing

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this all wrong, but my evidence says it's

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a waste of time and money.

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So I guess my question to myself is, am I

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seeing this all wrong?

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No one has really shown me a better way.

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Okay, panel, it's your turn.

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Analyze that confession.

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What are we hearing?

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Go for it, Paul.

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Well, to me, that confession just comes

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from, I mean, it's clear,

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it comes from disappointment.

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Not ignorance.

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Oh, yes.

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It's just massive disappointment.

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Yeah, pure disappointment.

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And you know, it's not anti-training.

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It's anti-wasted effort

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and time and resources.

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And you know, it's

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frustrating.

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Well, it's directed at training because

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that's the tangible

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thing that I spent money on.

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Yeah.

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And I don't see the results.

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And it's common that the money spent,

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enthusiasm spikes, yahoo, but old habits

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keep returning quickly and there's

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no visible-- But I thought that was what

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training was supposed to do, Paul.

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I thought training was supposed to get

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rid of those old habits.

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That's why I paid all that money to bring

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in those highfalutin sales trainers.

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And that's common.

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Well, it's common, but I don't like it.

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But it's because

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most trainers are designed for delivery

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and not integration.

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Ooh, another boomerism.

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Delivery but not integrate.

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What's the difference?

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It's a show.

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I'm here to show, I'm here to deliver

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this thing that I have packaged for this

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company and I'm going to do it well and

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it's gonna come across great.

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But it's not actually designed to say,

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okay, how is what I'm going to deliver

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actually going to help somebody change

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the way they act and behave?

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That sounds pretty difficult to me.

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I mean, I was told at one time in my

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career, if someone gives you an

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assignment to change somebody, refuse the

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assignment, because

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it ain't gonna happen.

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So how am I gonna, I mean, even if I hire

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a great sales trainer, how the hell am I

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gonna get them to change anything?

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I am so jaded right now

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that I just can't see it.

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Leah, don't jump in Leah, just jump in.

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Is Leah, is she chomping at the bit?

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Well, no one can change anybody.

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Nobody can.

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We can't even change

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ourselves unless we-- Sometimes.

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Well, we can't unless we decide to.

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I've got a girlfriend, she's fantastic,

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wonderful, active, brilliant woman.

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And she,

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it's impossible for her to lose weight.

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She's told me, she's done all the things.

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She's joined the gym, she's gone to the

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gym, she's changed her diet, she tracks

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her calories, she drinks more water, she

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visualizes, she limits her TV watching,

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she does all the things.

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And her weight won't budge.

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Her weight has not budged.

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So what's really going on here?

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There may be

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a thyroid issue, like a

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fundamental physical issue.

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Could be a physical problem, yeah.

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Could be a physical problem.

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Or what she thinks she's doing

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is not what she's doing.

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She's like, I

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couldn't add anything, right?

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She's saying all the things.

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So what is the first step as a

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coach that we have people do?

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I want you to write down everything

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you're doing, right?

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And we've taken it outside the sales

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arena, we're talking about weight loss.

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You take it outside, you have real

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information, you're honest with yourself.

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You're actually showing because we always

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overestimate what we're doing.

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We always underestimate.

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And the critical thing is we stop.

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We chicken out just before we get to the

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point that it's all gonna happen.

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We had one episode where we were talking

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about leg indicators and lead indicators.

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Legging and leading, yeah.

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So we've got this ultimate leg indicator

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here of, she does, she

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wants to drop 50 pounds.

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And her lead indicators, what are they?

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But are they valid?

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Are they valid?

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And if they are,

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eventually it will catch up.

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So with sales training.

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So I hear you saying, Leah, that

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sometimes we lie to

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ourselves about what we're doing.

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Is that what I'm hearing?

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You gotta know.

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And sometimes it's

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garbage what we're doing, right?

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Sometimes it's not

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enough what we're doing.

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Sometimes we totally misrepresent it.

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We say, oh, we're doing, you know, I've

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had people say, sir, I'm

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doing everything possible.

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I cannot do anymore.

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I am doing all the things to get to that.

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The activities should lead to that goal

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and it's not working.

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And then you check up and find out what.

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What do you find out, Leah?

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They weren't doing it.

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They actually weren't doing, oh, well on

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that day I couldn't.

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Oh, well, there was no

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way I was going that person.

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So how does this relate

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back to hiring a trainer?

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What do you want them to do?

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Why are you hiring this trainer?

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What kind of track record do they have?

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What is it that you need them to do?

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Have you talked to your people?

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There's a whole bunch of things to make

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sure you hire the right

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trainer and stick with it.

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Plus ask them, what

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are they promising you?

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If you hire a sales trainer that's

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telling you that they will absolutely

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guarantee that you're gonna be, your

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measurement of success is to double your

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sales, yeah, I can do that.

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Save your money.

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Save your money.

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Come on.

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That sounds appealing to

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me, Leah, I don't know.

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There's one more thing that I think they

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need to ask and it's

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not about the trainer.

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Well, it's for the trainer.

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It's what do I as the business owner need

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to do to help this stick?

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What things do I need to do?

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To prepare the ground.

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Information doesn't

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change behavior by itself, but the

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environment around that information does.

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Yep.

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Yep.

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So let me summarize what I'm hearing you

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guys say because this is really

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important, I think, to this topic.

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And

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I'm maybe the only one here who's

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actually spent hundreds of thousands of

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dollars on sales trading.

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Yes, hundreds of thousands of dollars.

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And before I figured it out,

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I was missing something that was critical

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that I didn't ask them to do, okay?

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And I paid the price for that.

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Anybody guess what that was?

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Paul knows what that is.

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What didn't I ask them to do?

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I'm sorry, I said it again.

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I was distracted and drinking.

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Oh, I'm sorry.

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Oh,

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drinking water.

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I should have whiskey

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in my hand, but okay.

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What did I not ask my sales trainers to

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do that made those

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experiences so painful for me?

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There was a missing ingredient that I

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learned later in my career,

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and I now teach, and I

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am total advocate of this.

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What is that missing ingredient?

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You said it earlier.

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Integration.

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How are you going to

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help integrate this into

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our business?

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And what do I need to do?

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You said it a minute ago.

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Two questions.

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How are you, the trainer, going to

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integrate this i.e. install it?

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I always compare it to a piece of

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software for your computer.

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Nowadays, we don't use floppy disks and

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all that crap, but remember in the day we

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would buy a disk and

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install a program on our computer?

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What if you went out and bought the disk

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and never installed it?

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Well, I bought the disk.

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I did what I was told to do.

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I bought the disk.

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Well, did you install it?

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Oh, no, no, I just

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didn't get around to it.

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That's sales training that doesn't work.

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And that's, I hate to say it.

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I love you all out

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there who do sales training.

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It's tough work, but for me as a buyer of

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sales training, you better show me how

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you're going to integrate it.

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It better be installed

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or I'm not interested.

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That to me is the missing ingredient.

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Thoughts?

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Well, it's like you have to

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look at it as a tool, right?

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This is a tool to help

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you get where you're going.

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You need to know what you're using the

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tool for, you need to know how to use the

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tool and then you

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actually have to use it.

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Yeah, and that's the

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installation part, right?

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That's the integration part.

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You know what kind of

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sales training I hate?

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Yes, yes, we are doing,

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no, I love sales training.

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I absolutely love sales training.

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I actually have

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applied for sales position.

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About a hundred years ago, I applied for

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sales training jobs and I was told that,

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you know what, I just didn't have the

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experience, which that's

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a whole other story, but

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I hate sales training that is hype.

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I hate sales training

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that is-- What is hype?

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Okay, now you gotta define

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your terms here, come on.

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Because it's not about

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just motivating the team.

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Let's go, we work for the best vacuum

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cleaners manufacturer in the world.

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We're gonna hit those doors.

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We're going door to door and we're going

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to do it after we do it,

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now we are gonna just shine.

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Sing it with me.

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I hate that part.

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Do you know who Zig Ziglar is?

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Oh, absolutely, that guy's classic.

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Absolutely classic.

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Is he the classic of that breed that

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you're talking about?

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You know what though?

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But he backed it up with tangible things.

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Because I do think that energy matters,

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self-talk matters, what we say to

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ourselves, these things all matter, but

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they cannot exist in a vacuum.

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So Leah, let me ask you this question.

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You know a lot about sales.

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Tell me a training program that you have

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been subjected to, or no, I shouldn't say

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subjected to, participated in, that

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actually changed your behavior.

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Can you name one that actually allowed

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you to change your behavior to a

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different way of doing

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things that was a better way?

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Well, I can't think of one where it

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didn't if I implemented specifics.

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I think of Brian Tracy, okay, you'll

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remember Brian Tracy,

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right, think of Tony Robbins.

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He's my father, Brian Tracy.

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Right, yeah, I love Brian Tracy.

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Look at Tony Robbins, he went away for a

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long time and then he came

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back, that's a nice story.

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All these books back here and all these,

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I had every video, every tape, every book

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that Brian Tracy ever wrote.

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Absolutely, I took multiple and fabulous.

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What behavioral change did you see as a

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result of those trainings?

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Okay, we've talked about the word

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accountability, right?

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A way to frame personal accountability

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because when it comes down to it, when

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you are early in your sales career,

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if you're not accountable to yourself, if

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you don't have the personal desire to

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implement tools, and

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you're sitting in training,

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don't be a conference

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goer, be a conference doer.

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You

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have to make that decision, right?

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It's not a wish, it's a decision.

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So when I was able to

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listen to a Brian Tracy book on cassette

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and push into it and then get certified

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in his methods and actually do it,

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that was impressive change.

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You actually did the

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things that Brian Tracy taught.

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Absolutely, there's another one that I-

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What caused you to do that?

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Why did you do that?

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Because nobody else was doing it for me.

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Okay.

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Right?

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And I knew, and I knew- Do you

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believe that he would lead you, that he

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was leading you in the right direction?

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Someone, and again, someone that I

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trusted recommended him to me.

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So hold on for a second.

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Did you seek out this training or did

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this training come to you?

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Oh, I sought it out.

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Okay, so- And I paid for it.

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Okay, so I've done the same thing.

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I sought it out and paid for it.

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Here's the difference that in this

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conversation and in this

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confession- That's right.

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Excellent Paul.

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It's you wanting to go out and you wanted

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to seek it out and do the thing.

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What about if it's you're in your office

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and you're being told, "Hey,

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you need to do this training."

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Interesting point.

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What then?

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I wanna know what it's gonna do,

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right?

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Well say it's Brian Tracy.

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Let's say it's Brian Tracy.

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Let's say whoever you were working for

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said, "We're gonna all go

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to this Brian Tracy seminar.

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"He's a good Canadian boy.

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"We're gonna make you

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all go to this seminar."

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Okay?

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Yeah.

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Well- How would you feel about that?

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Oh, again.

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It's not your choice.

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Depends on who's telling you.

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If you really trust the organization

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you're working for and the-

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Man, it's that word again, trust.

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Yeah, and understand

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why they're sending you.

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Have you guys ever heard, he's Canadian

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author, the wealthy barber?

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No.

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Chilton, Brian

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Chilton I think is his name.

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I could have the first name wrong.

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Brilliant, brilliant.

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I would have been early 20s.

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I had never seen someone speak on

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personal finance before.

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And I was sent by the group

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that I worked for to see him.

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And he was part of a,

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there was a group, a

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whole group of trainers.

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And he was the keynote address.

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I had no idea who he was.

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I hadn't read his book.

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I was mesmerized by him.

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I've given away more of his books to

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people getting married and to people

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graduating from high school than I can

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count because he took concepts and made

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it really simple and a how to.

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Now I wouldn't have ever been sitting in

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front of him except

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someone told me I had to.

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Wasn't a bad thing.

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Now a lot of people sneered at it.

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Maybe because they

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already knew this stuff.

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For me at 22, I didn't

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know any of this stuff.

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I didn't even know it was

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possible to do half this stuff.

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Well, I think it's an interesting

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distinction between stuff that we chose

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personally to do on our own

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and stuff we were forced to do.

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You're giving an example of where it

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worked out, but I'm gonna postulate that

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most people who are

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forced to go to a training,

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50-50.

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I don't know, Paul.

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What do you think?

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Yeah, I don't know.

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I can even put a number or two it.

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But my question is for this person who's

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confessing is, do I spend money?

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Why do I, because I haven't seen it help.

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So do I continue to go down

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this path and why or why not?

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And it really does for me come down to

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you have to, the word again, have clear

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expectations, clarity of what you want

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from this and communicate that not only

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to this trainer or organization or

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whatever, but also to your staff.

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What are you hoping

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that they get out of it?

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And therefore-- Set the expectation.

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Exactly, for everybody.

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And only then, and if the instructor

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trainer comes back and says, well, I

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don't know how to do that and what gives

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you vague answers, then

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they're not gonna be the one.

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And you should move on.

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Yeah, I think sometimes I've noticed

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some business owners

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wanna check the box.

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Training, check, okay?

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And there's no real deep

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dive into the credentials.

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And again, my new,

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without fail, my new requirement is if

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you're not going to help me install this

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training, we're not gonna do it.

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It has to become a skillset for my team.

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And there's a big difference between lip

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service and actually doing that, Dennis.

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We're sponsored by WizardAcademy.org.

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I was introduced to Wizard Academy by

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decades ago, three decades ago by a

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company I was working with and for.

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And they did a brilliant job taking

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training and actually sending people for

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training and incorporating it.

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But I've also seen companies that were

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just as invested that

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stopped doing that, right?

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Why?

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Well, how do you

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leave your people feeling?

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They started gung-ho, then they pulled

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back because, well, it's expensive.

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Well, we can do this internally.

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What we don't need to, and what it sounds

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to people is you don't need to invest.

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And then there's a mixed message because

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you're saying that this is a really good

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process, but now you're not any longer

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wanting to formally train people on it.

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So it can be done differently, but

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salespeople aren't

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stupid, staff isn't stupid.

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They're gonna believe what you do, not

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what you say, about

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the training you pick.

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That's true.

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And again, there's also a factor here

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that some people do not

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have a growth mindset.

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They have a fixed mindset and they don't

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respond well to training because they

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think they know everything.

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I don't need any training.

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I already know what I need to know.

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That's a whole nother topic, a confession

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that we can maybe deal with someday.

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But so what's our bottom line on this?

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Let's summarize what we've talked about.

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What advice, what thoughts do we wanna

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share with our super-l

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and our own questions?

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Put those in the comments and we'll be

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glad to have that conversation.

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But make sure you add your

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comments to this podcast.

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In addition,

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if you want something also tangible that

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you can take with you is in the show

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notes of this podcast and all the other

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podcasts of Connect and Convert, go to

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connectandconvertpodcast.com

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and in the show notes, you'll find a form

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that you can download.

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It's the Founder Small Business Owner

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Sales Trust Playbook which will help you

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guide through some of these things that

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we're talking about today.

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So now hit the pause button, go add your

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comment, go download the thing.

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Now, okay, one.

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You come back?

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Okay, you're back.

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Okay, now they're back.

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Now let's go ahead and recap.

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Okay, Leah, what did you

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hear of our discussion?

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What comes out?

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People want a return on

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investment in anything you do.

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If I buy a new truck, if I'm buying cell

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phones and laptops for my staff, if we're

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doing, we're changing the carpet and the

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desk, we want to return it on investment.

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We want to be able to capitalize that.

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So when you are doing training, if you're

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not getting the return on

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investment, stop doing that.

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Stop doing what you're doing and look at

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what is your long-term

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thoughts?

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What are your people

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needing and who can do that?

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If you're not sure who, there's ways of

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figuring that out and there's many

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peoples and organizations

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you can talk to, including us.

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But always it comes down to communication

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because you don't want to throw money

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away and you don't want

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something that is sugar.

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You don't want the syrup.

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You, I want a ribeye.

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Are you guys with me?

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Like when I'm hungry, I want a ribeye.

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I want to dig in there,

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maybe a glass of nice red wine.

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If you are content with pulling in a fast

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food, bit of a French fries and a pop,

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that's what you're gonna get.

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So, you know, we've done a series of

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these confession podcasts

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and I keep, I hear a theme.

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There are a couple of words

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that we use a lot, clarity.

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Define your terms.

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Leah started this whole

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series weeks ago, months ago.

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Define your terms.

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And isn't that really

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kind of right for all this?

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What is it you expect

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from a sales trainer?

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Okay.

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And in no uncertain terms, you know, I'm

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a big guy on making

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agreements, not expectations.

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You know, what used to be an expectation

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for me, I turn into an agreement.

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So we agree that this sales training is

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gonna do the five

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following things, ABCDE, right?

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We agree on that.

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Agree on that upfront.

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Okay.

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No expectations.

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Expectations are for losers.

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Agreements are for winners.

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Agree on what is going to deliver upfront

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and hold your trainer

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accountable to that.

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I would say that the fault of faulty

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training, of flawed training is not so

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much on the trainer as it is on the

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person who hired the trainer.

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What criteria did you use to hire them?

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What expectations, what

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agreements did you make with them?

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Okay.

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And I think that's the

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step that's missing a lot.

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So yeah, do training for sure do

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training, but understand very clearly

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what you expect, what you agree with the

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trainer to do and hold them accountable

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to deliver on the agreement.

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I'm gonna leave this here.

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Transformation requires design.

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Hmm, boy.

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Paul, you gotta write

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a book of boomerisms.

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Those are good.

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Transformation requires design.

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Meaning without

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design, you cannot transform.

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No, you can't.

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And you know what?

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Expect training to do

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transformation, don't we?

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When you purchase training, at least,

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unless you're just checking the box, when

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you purchase training,

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you're expecting transformation.

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What is the transforma-

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Define that in the agreement.

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Here's the transformation I'm expecting

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with this training.

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This is what I need to have done.

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How are we gonna do that?

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And if you can't do that, then you're

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probably not the right trainer for me.

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Make sense?

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Yes.

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Okay, guys, I think

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we have exhausted another episode of

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Connect and Convert.

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Oh, oh, one more thing I wanna say.

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Oh, she's here.

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I wanna say, sorry, I wanna say, if

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you've had crappy

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training, go to the trainer.

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Tell them.

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Tell them you're not getting what you

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paid for and see their reaction.

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They may not know that

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they're- That's a good point, yeah.

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That's what they're offering you is crap.

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They may not recognize it.

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They may go, "Oh, I

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thought you wanted this."

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Again, communication.

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Tell them.

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When you're at a restaurant and the food

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is crappy, let them

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know so they can fix it.

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You're not doing anything

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if you just sort of buy it.

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I'll bet you let them know.

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Oh.

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(Laughs)

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Sometimes my kids go,

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"Mom, just nevermind."

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Mom, just, yeah, I have family members

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who embarrass me in restaurants.

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(Laughs)

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Anyway, it's okay.

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That's who you are.

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Okay, I had to say that.

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I had to say that.

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We love it when you are you.

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You be you, okay?

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Okay, guys.

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Well, again, I'm glad you joined us on

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this episode of Connect and Convert.

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I am Dennis.

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The lovely one there is Miss Lia.

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And the smart one is Mr.

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Paul Boomer.

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We are Connect and Convert.

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We've spent decades listening to the

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confessions of small business owners, and

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we bring you those

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discussions right here, okay?

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We connect you to the thoughts that

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founders and owners have,

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but they don't say out loud.

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And we convert you to honest information.

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We name it so that you can make better

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decisions, have more clarity, clarity,

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and add momentum to your business, okay?

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We'll see you next time

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on Connect and Convert.

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Remember this, most

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founders don't need more advice.

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They need a place to be heard.

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This is Connect and Convert.

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This is where you will be heard.

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